So I got my schedule for October and half of November for my part time job last night, and they put me on a lot more evenings than I had wanted. I talked to DH about it last night, and he is fully supportive for whatever we need to do, but it is hard. I asked him what he thought about the schedule and if he thought I should tell them I need to be off a couple of the evenings, and he asked "well, do you want the money?" Well duh, of course I do, but at what expense? I have 2 little boys who I get less time with than I would like, but what I am doing is for the benefit of our family. I worked last night and get home after they've gone to bed, and I had a 7 AM meeting this morning and left before they woke up. I hate going so long without even being able to get a hug and kiss from them (luckily this doesn't happen often).
I want to work as much as is reasonable to get out of this debt, but I also don't want to burn myself out and miss out on valuable time with my kids while they are still little. I can say though, that since I took this part time job, we value our time together more and do more things together when I am off, as opposed to sitting around the house in separate rooms.
There isn't really a right or wrong answer, I guess, just thinking out loud...
Finding a balance
September 3rd, 2014 at 12:13 pm
September 3rd, 2014 at 12:25 pm 1409747116
What do the numbers say..if you cut X hours or nights working, how much longer does that keep you in debt?
September 3rd, 2014 at 04:46 pm 1409762786
So paid off 3 months earlier for me to work 4 evenings a month total. For October, I'm on for 6 evenings, which I think is a little too much for me. I will work the schedule as is this time, but for the next schedule I will ask her to not put me on more than 1 day a week. I think I can handle that, and paying off $75000 of credit card debt in 3 and 1/2 years is nothing to be ashamed of!
December 5th, 2014 at 03:07 am 1417748848
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